"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Did I come on too strong in this facebook message...

Dragoo

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Here is what I said...

"I don\'t really use facebook but nice pic. I think I\'ve seen you around the VaTech campus in the past. U graduated VaTech already right?"

WHat do you guys think???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alle_Gory

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*tumbleweed*


What do YOU think. Strong is a relative word. Strong compared to what?
 

Dragoo

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darkguy9944 said:
Nope not really. I wanted to know if she graduated or not so I asked.


You guys don't know the context of anything so this was a dumb thread.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJVladdy

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you came on too Weak, and deep down you know why/how
 

jdon23

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Women know your hitting on them. Don't be so indirect and beat around the bush. This makes you have very tiny balls, and keeps them that way. Start saying things to produce an effect! If you talk to her like a friend, then thats how your relationship will be dictated

Go for a ballsy comment and see how she replies.. then keep it going and see how far it goes..

"Mmm you look sexy in that picture. I bet your the type of girl who likes to get spanked. Haha. Your secret is safe with me ;)"
 

xdreamz

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myspace is a lot easier. i dont know talking about things like school... bore.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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