"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Did I come on too strong in this facebook message...

Dragoo

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Here is what I said...

"I don\'t really use facebook but nice pic. I think I\'ve seen you around the VaTech campus in the past. U graduated VaTech already right?"

WHat do you guys think???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alle_Gory

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What do YOU think. Strong is a relative word. Strong compared to what?
 

Dragoo

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darkguy9944 said:
Nope not really. I wanted to know if she graduated or not so I asked.


You guys don't know the context of anything so this was a dumb thread.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJVladdy

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you came on too Weak, and deep down you know why/how
 

jdon23

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Women know your hitting on them. Don't be so indirect and beat around the bush. This makes you have very tiny balls, and keeps them that way. Start saying things to produce an effect! If you talk to her like a friend, then thats how your relationship will be dictated

Go for a ballsy comment and see how she replies.. then keep it going and see how far it goes..

"Mmm you look sexy in that picture. I bet your the type of girl who likes to get spanked. Haha. Your secret is safe with me ;)"
 

xdreamz

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myspace is a lot easier. i dont know talking about things like school... bore.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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