You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
He has been here for only a few weeks and his on his way to passing my post count!! The bastard is not human - he must be a machine - a human typewriter!!Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
aequitas(your name is very annoying how you made it) you racked up 595 posts and you've been here for only one month. Idle hands to the extreme.
I'll throw that into my 'things to do list' LOL. How was that?Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
bikker, maybe if you had put your "lol" after your jokes in caps(LOL). The joke would have been funnier. Everyone likes people who laugh at their own jokes, you should do it more.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You´re hilarious.Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
He has been here for only a few weeks and his on his way to passing my post count!! The bastard is not human - he must be a machine - a human typewriter!!
For being only 18 years old he has a lot to say - I guess he has one of those "helping" personalities and feels that he is doing his duty!
I hope you break my rpost count record Aequitas! Go for it!!