"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DHV and the approach

K2000kidd

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Why would we approach a woman if we view ourselves as the prize?

I may be taking this too far by speaking only to women who have approached me/shown IOI believing if I approach a woman I'd be DLV'ing

opinions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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r0cky

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Being social is a DHV.
Standing alone in a corner with your chode friends with a "Im the prize" mentality isnt dhv'ing.
Demonstrate your the prize. Approach the girls but not because you want to hit on them. Do it because you're social and you want to see if they are good enough for you.
 

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Women have options, similar to a bag of garbage ....eventually they will get picked up. Where as a man is more like a stain in the carpet........women notice it but just walk by.

Rarely do chics initiate the process..........it does happen but a series of variables must be present. So to tilt the odds in OUR favor we want to make it APPEAR LIKE its them hitting on us. SO how do we do that.......glad U asked.

ACTIVE DIS-INTEREST...........we tease 'em ever so slightly to initiate the chase. Some call it the CAT-STRING THEORY.........dangle a thread to get them to chase it...........if the thread doesnt move the feline loses interest quickly. Remember when you were little and how U pulled on a girls pony tails (or some other juvenile attempt at fun play) and they would chase you around trying to get you back. Thats prizeability and DHV in its purest form.........you evoked them, then ran away. Catching you is the prize, so now your it and you MUST chase them. It all began by YOU starting the process........ever so gently.

If say you said hey I think you are cute and I want you to chase me............it just doesn't work........much like a stagnant string...it just does little to captivate the Cat. Also waving the string too fast and furious is overwhelming and may even scare the cat away. Men who come on too strong, too fast actually repel women. You have to initiate then lean back.......this is true online and in field.

Many ways to DHV..........too many to list.....but I thinks u catch my drift.
 
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