"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DHV and the approach

K2000kidd

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Why would we approach a woman if we view ourselves as the prize?

I may be taking this too far by speaking only to women who have approached me/shown IOI believing if I approach a woman I'd be DLV'ing

opinions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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r0cky

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Being social is a DHV.
Standing alone in a corner with your chode friends with a "Im the prize" mentality isnt dhv'ing.
Demonstrate your the prize. Approach the girls but not because you want to hit on them. Do it because you're social and you want to see if they are good enough for you.
 

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Women have options, similar to a bag of garbage ....eventually they will get picked up. Where as a man is more like a stain in the carpet........women notice it but just walk by.

Rarely do chics initiate the process..........it does happen but a series of variables must be present. So to tilt the odds in OUR favor we want to make it APPEAR LIKE its them hitting on us. SO how do we do that.......glad U asked.

ACTIVE DIS-INTEREST...........we tease 'em ever so slightly to initiate the chase. Some call it the CAT-STRING THEORY.........dangle a thread to get them to chase it...........if the thread doesnt move the feline loses interest quickly. Remember when you were little and how U pulled on a girls pony tails (or some other juvenile attempt at fun play) and they would chase you around trying to get you back. Thats prizeability and DHV in its purest form.........you evoked them, then ran away. Catching you is the prize, so now your it and you MUST chase them. It all began by YOU starting the process........ever so gently.

If say you said hey I think you are cute and I want you to chase me............it just doesn't work........much like a stagnant string...it just does little to captivate the Cat. Also waving the string too fast and furious is overwhelming and may even scare the cat away. Men who come on too strong, too fast actually repel women. You have to initiate then lean back.......this is true online and in field.

Many ways to DHV..........too many to list.....but I thinks u catch my drift.
 
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