Women have options, similar to a bag of garbage ....eventually they will get picked up. Where as a man is more like a stain in the carpet........women notice it but just walk by.
Rarely do chics initiate the process..........it does happen but a series of variables must be present. So to tilt the odds in OUR favor we want to make it APPEAR LIKE its them hitting on us. SO how do we do that.......glad U asked.
ACTIVE DIS-INTEREST...........we tease 'em ever so slightly to initiate the chase. Some call it the CAT-STRING THEORY.........dangle a thread to get them to chase it...........if the thread doesnt move the feline loses interest quickly. Remember when you were little and how U pulled on a girls pony tails (or some other juvenile attempt at fun play) and they would chase you around trying to get you back. Thats prizeability and DHV in its purest form.........you evoked them, then ran away. Catching you is the prize, so now your it and you MUST chase them. It all began by YOU starting the process........ever so gently.
If say you said hey I think you are cute and I want you to chase me............it just doesn't work........much like a stagnant string...it just does little to captivate the Cat. Also waving the string too fast and furious is overwhelming and may even scare the cat away. Men who come on too strong, too fast actually repel women. You have to initiate then lean back.......this is true online and in field.
Many ways to DHV..........too many to list.....but I thinks u catch my drift.
