ilikecharlene
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How do, or did, you develop game?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Developing game
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Learn theory ---> practice applying theory ---> profit.
ilikecharlene
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OK, but which theory? Which PUA artist is best?
I've found that a mixture of several has helped me, but mainly practical happiness on Youtube (not his real name of course) and David Wygant. It has helped me understand the psychology behind dating and my own actions.
I've found that a mixture of several has helped me, but mainly practical happiness on Youtube (not his real name of course) and David Wygant. It has helped me understand the psychology behind dating and my own actions.
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Pook. The Book of Pook. Read it and don't look back.
Amen to Pook and other authors that focus on realizing your potential as a man.
For me personally "game" didn't help much. With game I mean studying theories and routines. Applying the routines in real life with women resulted in temporary spikes of attraction with no real succes in terms of pulling women.
I think it somehow diluted my purpose as a man and as a result didn't actually help in the end. Most of the transformations I have seen (including my own) come from a solid inner foundation combined with going out and hitting it hard while having fun. Good luck!
For me personally "game" didn't help much. With game I mean studying theories and routines. Applying the routines in real life with women resulted in temporary spikes of attraction with no real succes in terms of pulling women.
I think it somehow diluted my purpose as a man and as a result didn't actually help in the end. Most of the transformations I have seen (including my own) come from a solid inner foundation combined with going out and hitting it hard while having fun. Good luck!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ilikecharlene
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what is the book of pook?sighsigh said:
* Learn to read body language - look for buying signs (she holds eye contact and smiles).
* Apply the 3 second rule - and know that it doesn't matter what you say if she likes you. You could walk up to her and say "Papa Smurf" and she'll giggle if she likes you.
* Practice. Walk up to women and ask their name. If they ask your name and extend their hand, shake their hand and have a conversation. If they don't, next.
* Don't ask for dates, offer dates. "I'm going to the mall tomorrow at 3PM if you want to join me." They can't reject you then.
* Know that Absence is the KEY. It is the flywheel to balance your approach. If you mess up: NC. If she messes up: NC. If it doesn't feel right: NC. If she flakes: NC.
* If you don't hear from her again, it's over.
* And YES looks matter. So get ripped and eat organic.
* Apply the 3 second rule - and know that it doesn't matter what you say if she likes you. You could walk up to her and say "Papa Smurf" and she'll giggle if she likes you.
* Practice. Walk up to women and ask their name. If they ask your name and extend their hand, shake their hand and have a conversation. If they don't, next.
* Don't ask for dates, offer dates. "I'm going to the mall tomorrow at 3PM if you want to join me." They can't reject you then.
* Know that Absence is the KEY. It is the flywheel to balance your approach. If you mess up: NC. If she messes up: NC. If it doesn't feel right: NC. If she flakes: NC.
* If you don't hear from her again, it's over.
* And YES looks matter. So get ripped and eat organic.