ilikecharlene
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How do, or did, you develop game?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Developing game
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Learn theory ---> practice applying theory ---> profit.
ilikecharlene
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OK, but which theory? Which PUA artist is best?
I've found that a mixture of several has helped me, but mainly practical happiness on Youtube (not his real name of course) and David Wygant. It has helped me understand the psychology behind dating and my own actions.
I've found that a mixture of several has helped me, but mainly practical happiness on Youtube (not his real name of course) and David Wygant. It has helped me understand the psychology behind dating and my own actions.
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Pook. The Book of Pook. Read it and don't look back.
Amen to Pook and other authors that focus on realizing your potential as a man.
For me personally "game" didn't help much. With game I mean studying theories and routines. Applying the routines in real life with women resulted in temporary spikes of attraction with no real succes in terms of pulling women.
I think it somehow diluted my purpose as a man and as a result didn't actually help in the end. Most of the transformations I have seen (including my own) come from a solid inner foundation combined with going out and hitting it hard while having fun. Good luck!
For me personally "game" didn't help much. With game I mean studying theories and routines. Applying the routines in real life with women resulted in temporary spikes of attraction with no real succes in terms of pulling women.
I think it somehow diluted my purpose as a man and as a result didn't actually help in the end. Most of the transformations I have seen (including my own) come from a solid inner foundation combined with going out and hitting it hard while having fun. Good luck!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ilikecharlene
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what is the book of pook?sighsigh said:
* Learn to read body language - look for buying signs (she holds eye contact and smiles).
* Apply the 3 second rule - and know that it doesn't matter what you say if she likes you. You could walk up to her and say "Papa Smurf" and she'll giggle if she likes you.
* Practice. Walk up to women and ask their name. If they ask your name and extend their hand, shake their hand and have a conversation. If they don't, next.
* Don't ask for dates, offer dates. "I'm going to the mall tomorrow at 3PM if you want to join me." They can't reject you then.
* Know that Absence is the KEY. It is the flywheel to balance your approach. If you mess up: NC. If she messes up: NC. If it doesn't feel right: NC. If she flakes: NC.
* If you don't hear from her again, it's over.
* And YES looks matter. So get ripped and eat organic.
* Apply the 3 second rule - and know that it doesn't matter what you say if she likes you. You could walk up to her and say "Papa Smurf" and she'll giggle if she likes you.
* Practice. Walk up to women and ask their name. If they ask your name and extend their hand, shake their hand and have a conversation. If they don't, next.
* Don't ask for dates, offer dates. "I'm going to the mall tomorrow at 3PM if you want to join me." They can't reject you then.
* Know that Absence is the KEY. It is the flywheel to balance your approach. If you mess up: NC. If she messes up: NC. If it doesn't feel right: NC. If she flakes: NC.
* If you don't hear from her again, it's over.
* And YES looks matter. So get ripped and eat organic.