Developing a personality

[solotak]

Hi,

As some may know, i'm trying to work on my social status and in doing so i've come to notice that personality is a fundamental to help you out in social settings.

The problem is, I don't have much of a personality and i'm trying to find ways to make one best suit me while attracting others. I won't to eliminate any boring and unfun behaviours out of my system, but it's hard for me and completly change over where i've had a reputation to just be passive in groups and not really open up to anyone.

I'd like some tips or a point of direction where i can build on my character and get known. I really got to work on humour and just fun things so that people enjoy hanging around me. So i'd like to encourage all you experienced dj's to help a fellow out and make myself unique, in a good way.

 

[spider_007]

slef help tapes (download it)

jim rohn-cultivating an unshakable character

i personally havn't gotten to the end of it (I keep falling alseep), but, it's a start

 

[JazzPimpNYC]

1) Start reading classic literature.
2) Get your ass to the gym
3) Start practicing creative/performing arts.
4) Develop a circle of friends
5) Watch E! channel, read People magazine.
6) Take every social opportunity

Just some ideas.

 

[iCY]

Originally posted by JazzPimpNYC
1) Start reading classic literature.
2) Get your ass to the gym
3) Start practicing creative/performing arts.
4) Develop a circle of friends
5) Watch E! channel, read People magazine.
6) Take every social opportunity

Just some ideas.

i dont think thats gonna help much with social status in highschool.

the best way to do it i believe is to make friends EVERYWHERE. then make friends with their friends and so on. its also good if you pick up a good hobby and make it known (try sports, weight lifting, basically nothing boring- no, not even chess)
just find ways to stand out of the crowd, talk more and talk louder so people hear you and remember you.

 

[solotak]

Yes that would work great with social status, but i need help with developing a personality. The responsible characteristic that makes you interesting and fun to be with. I want to focus on developing a personality that is fun and fruitful (no not in a gay way). I'm asking for this to aid me with my social life.

 

[chill]

trying to change your personality completely is almost impossible. what you ought to be doing is picking up hobbies and charicteristics that make you more interesting to others. if you do this one step at a time, i guess you could "change" your personality

 

[Sir Lancelot]

Originally posted by solotak
Yes that would work great with social status, but i need help with developing a personality. The responsible characteristic that makes you interesting and fun to be with. I want to focus on developing a personality that is fun and fruitful (no not in a gay way). I'm asking for this to aid me with my social life.

You already have a good personality, you just need to discover it. Do this by hanging out with as many different people as you can.

Instead of trying to create a personality that will appeal to everyone, sit back and think about WHO you are, and what kind of traits you believe you already have. Take up some new hobbies, meet new people, make something of your life. Then you'll have a story to tell, and you'll become a much more interesting and attractive person.