"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mountain

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I have a fairly specific question for you all. Prior to sex with this girl, i said that i havent had sex with anyone since we last had sex, which was the week before. Do you think that saying this was contrary to the idea of remaining a mystery and also making her feel that she has competition. or her seeing me talk to other women just as good? my game was otherwise very tight. I'm confused as to where the line is drawn on the whole prize idea though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hmm i don't think there is any reason for telling her that... even if she specifically asks...

I love this line... "wouldn't you like to know?!"

It's not really her business either! Unless you've already agreed to some kind of exlcusive relationship, she has no business poking into your extended lovelife.

Just don't let her get the idea that she is the one and only. You're the prize, she needs to work for your attention and you are testing to see if she is the kind of woman you want... Don't get confused about what exactly you are doing.
 

mountain

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i left out an important point, it was because we were going to have sex without a condom
 

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mountain said:
i left out an important point, it was because we were going to have sex without a condom
Are you smoking crack? Or are you just looking to get a disease? You know how much child support is? Do you want to be paying some cvnt a quarter of all your money for the rest of your life?
 
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