Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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mountain

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I have a fairly specific question for you all. Prior to sex with this girl, i said that i havent had sex with anyone since we last had sex, which was the week before. Do you think that saying this was contrary to the idea of remaining a mystery and also making her feel that she has competition. or her seeing me talk to other women just as good? my game was otherwise very tight. I'm confused as to where the line is drawn on the whole prize idea though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hmm i don't think there is any reason for telling her that... even if she specifically asks...

I love this line... "wouldn't you like to know?!"

It's not really her business either! Unless you've already agreed to some kind of exlcusive relationship, she has no business poking into your extended lovelife.

Just don't let her get the idea that she is the one and only. You're the prize, she needs to work for your attention and you are testing to see if she is the kind of woman you want... Don't get confused about what exactly you are doing.
 

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i left out an important point, it was because we were going to have sex without a condom
 

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mountain said:
i left out an important point, it was because we were going to have sex without a condom
Are you smoking crack? Or are you just looking to get a disease? You know how much child support is? Do you want to be paying some cvnt a quarter of all your money for the rest of your life?
 
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