"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mountain

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I have a fairly specific question for you all. Prior to sex with this girl, i said that i havent had sex with anyone since we last had sex, which was the week before. Do you think that saying this was contrary to the idea of remaining a mystery and also making her feel that she has competition. or her seeing me talk to other women just as good? my game was otherwise very tight. I'm confused as to where the line is drawn on the whole prize idea though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Socialreject

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Hmm i don't think there is any reason for telling her that... even if she specifically asks...

I love this line... "wouldn't you like to know?!"

It's not really her business either! Unless you've already agreed to some kind of exlcusive relationship, she has no business poking into your extended lovelife.

Just don't let her get the idea that she is the one and only. You're the prize, she needs to work for your attention and you are testing to see if she is the kind of woman you want... Don't get confused about what exactly you are doing.
 

mountain

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i left out an important point, it was because we were going to have sex without a condom
 

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mountain said:
i left out an important point, it was because we were going to have sex without a condom
Are you smoking crack? Or are you just looking to get a disease? You know how much child support is? Do you want to be paying some cvnt a quarter of all your money for the rest of your life?
 
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