“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Destroying Social Phobias

rbd

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props!! great posts

nice to see some really good posts flooding the forums again

I'll start doing my part again, or at least doing my best, lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes you have posted a good thread on how to destroy phobias when it comes to women, but I wish you went over how to destroy social phobias in order to make friends, male and female. Especially male ones, so that you can have "wingmen" when on the hunt for woman.
 

Bonhomme

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same principles apply, lencour

The same principles apply for meeting any friends, lencour. In fact, I find it easier to make interesting conversation with men, because of more common interests, in general.

Just focus on the conversation sections.
 

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WOW!

Slamming post my man! This sucker is getting printed out and slapped on my Wall of Fame. You are one subliminal dude...

"Article 54 Section BJ-69: The Incredible Connection Clause"

ROTFL!!!
:p
BJ-69 ..... Sounds like an incredible connection indeed!
You are killing me over here

If this does not go into the DJ Bible, then I nominate you to write the New Testament!
 

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Mods, make this post a sticky!

Mods, you gotta sticky this baby!!!

-iceH
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Evil-Rom

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I read it.

I like it! :D
 

DJ Logic

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icehot is on the money. Everyone from newbies to masters must read this! I have read alot of posts and this is the only one I feel deserves a sticky. But until the mods take action, I guess we will have to settle for cruder methods such as the infamous.......

BUMP!!!
 

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Extremely high quality post! Whenever I feel this site comes to a new low, right then someone posts something like this to totally change my opinion. We need more posts like these.
 

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Marvellous post!

D-J-B! D-J-B! D-J-B!!! Take my vote... :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Very excellent read

Very excellent read. One of the best threads I've read in a long time; its even better than mine :eek: :D
 

oOh Nasty

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THIS IS SO GOD DAMNED MIRACULOUS.

OMFG.

I DONT THINK ANYONE HAS EVER BROKEN IT DOWN TO SIMPLICITY LIKE YOU.

FREAKIN 10 STARS IF IT WAS POSSIBLE.

~1~

OOH NASTY
 

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Excellent! Add a "Do xx cheesy cold approaces week yy", and you have a new social bootcamp!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julius_Caesar

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Hail Mr. Fingers!

wow man, I really like the stuff you right about. I find it both interesting theory and fun reading! I must say that I agree with leoncour when he commented about not just working on chicks but making male friends too. The topic of finding new male friends has interested me. I am, over the summer, going to embark upon a massive social proofing program. I am going to try to become that social butterfly, who everyone knows, who everyone likes, who everyone is excited to see. I basically am going to try to meet everyone in my city, I have a big smile on my face just thinking about it, it is going to be great fun; but, of course, I am not experienced with being very social so I am going to have some trouble in the beginning and your posts help me a great deal. I like what you write because it is not just about banging a bunch of girls, it is about becoming a more socially powerful and interesting person.
 

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Wow, praise from Caesar!

Thank you all for your kind responses. :)

I had a lot of fun putting this post together and am glad yall enjoyed it. I really never expected such a response...10 stars? 8 thumbs up???

At this rate, I won't be able to fit my head out the door!

Thanks for the confidence-boost guys! Time to take advantage of this great mood and hit the streets

ciao!

Fingers -----> out
 

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wow!! this post has seriously left me speachless...VERY NICE!! and easy to understand!

this seriously might be on of the best post's ever on this site!!
 

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I have been lurking on this site for months now. THis is my very first post. I am using it to say THANK YOU, Mr. Fingers. I have read many great posts here, but this one has changed my life! I dont like to get all mushy and whatnot, but I LOVE YOU MAN!

ahem. in a brotherly way of course!

I hate to just follow the crowd and say waht everyone else here says so you know my words are sincere. thanks again and i hope you post more of this gold!

BTW..if you ever find yourself on another plane of existence, give me a call and we'll do lunch!

:D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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