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That doesn't explain why there was such a vivid imagery behind the sexual fantasy, and for the record, the specific sexual fantasy had no relationship with what I just looked at. It was still a movie, not a porn flick. A cheesy 80s movie could have caused that? Really? Phoebe Cates wasn't even in my fantasy.

I have to tell my folks if I had a headache and am unable to find the pain medication because my mom put it away in her purse somewhere. My mom asked me why I had a headache. How do you think I'm supposed to reply to that? You don't just get headaches like that. I never get headaches. What do you expect me to say to them? They kept asking, what caused it..
I wouldn't reply with because I was jacking off. Boundaries brother... Boundaries. May I ask, how old you are and ethnicity?
 

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I wouldn't reply with because I was jacking off. Boundaries brother... Boundaries. May I ask, how old you are and ethnicity?
I also hinted at the nature of the sex fantasy. I am no Chadrone, just an average looking mixed race guy that is 44 years old.
 

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Come to think of it, this is a good fap control strategy. If I know that fapping will cause a tension headache later in the day which may be so bad that I might end up embarrassing myself then that's a social control to discourage fapping. Another effect I found when I was fapping to a civvie lady is that my jaws would lock and I can't open my mouth without excruciating pain until the "click" back into place. This usually happens on occasion when I fap to women that I may have met or dealt with, but are not pros. When I fap to escort pics/pros/or have an escort-fantasy there has never been a case of a lock-jaw. The headaches is a serious enough effect that it might discourage fapping in the future. But the "lock-jaw" will ensure there is no fapping with "civvie" women" because I don't want to risk breaking my jaws by fapping a woman.
 

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I also hinted at the nature of the sex fantasy. I am no Chadrone, just an average looking mixed race guy that is 44 years old.
Why, at 44, are you living with your parents? Are you allergic to work and being self-sufficient or have a major medical issue that prevents you from working?
 

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Why, at 44, are you living with your parents? Are you allergic to work and being self-sufficient or have a major medical issue that prevents you from working?
Who said I was not working?
 
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Why do you not have your own place? Not judging, just curious.
The tone in your previous posts comes across like you are judging, so you telling me that you are not judging and are just curious sort of falls flat. You assumed I was not working. But I will say that I live in a very expensive city and many people are complaining about the cost of living here. Also I have been making bankruptcy payments of $ 10,000 per year and have bad credit while making these payments so there is really no room. I also am devoted to my folks and like their company especially as seniors that are over or approaching 80. Both my dad and myself make some money I guess and I manage the accounts. There is less of a desire to want to move anywhere since I've put together a home theater system that includes a digital projector and 58 inch HDTV, which involved serious work around the home to set-up.
But one thing is certain, I am not going to abandon my elderly parents and unless they have their own home and someone to look after them, it has to be this way.
 

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The tone in your previous posts comes across like you are judging, so you telling me that you are not judging and are just curious sort of falls flat. You assumed I was not working. But I will say that I live in a very expensive city and many people are complaining about the cost of living here. Also I have been making bankruptcy payments of $ 10,000 per year and have bad credit while making these payments so there is really no room. I also am devoted to my folks and like their company especially as seniors that are over or approaching 80. Both my dad and myself make some money I guess and I manage the accounts. There is less of a desire to want to move anywhere since I've put together a home theater system that includes a digital projector and 58 inch HDTV, which involved serious work around the home to set-up.
But one thing is certain, I am not going to abandon my elderly parents and unless they have their own home and someone to look after them, it has to be this way.
If you feel the ends justify the means, then so be it. But building a den for yourself and taken care of your parents is not going to give you the satisfaction you need in life to strive and survive. Do you plan to ever date or be in a relationship with a woman again? Or have you sworn off women?
 

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If you feel the ends justify the means, then so be it. But building a den for yourself and taken care of your parents is not going to give you the satisfaction you need in life to strive and survive. Do you plan to ever date or be in a relationship with a woman again? Or have you sworn off women?
I guess you ignored the debt and huge payments part. I can only deal with the cards I am dealt with. Your cards are different than mine.

I have not sworn off women, I just dont want any more trouble with the wrong types of woman because I cant afford it. So there is no plan to deal with any woman because of desperation just to say I have someone.
 

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Had a insane fap session yesterday. Basically this came out of the blue while I have not looked at any pics since the beginning of the month, I kept thinking of intense doggie-style trusting. I ended up going on a fleshlight sex-toy page and fapping at sex-toy figuring, it's I'm fapping on a toy rather than a real woman so it can't really be porn. Then I regretted that logic because even a webpage selling toys can be a type of porn in and of itself. The mind plays tricks with you that way.

After I came out I get this post from R.U.G. yesterday, and figure that my fapping is attracting negative posts on this thread. Also got a text from an ex-gf I'm trying to avoid just afterwards and think that whatever this is creating a spiritual ripple-effect field that is very strange. We have not spoke since 2016 and she keeps harassing me and stalking me. If I stop fapping then I"ll get rid of her too. Things generally go well when I am not fapping. I feel this fapping is tapping into another dimension and its wreaking havoc in my world if it continues, so it must stop.
 
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