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Something you did instead of fapping: I fapped.

**Today I dove in temptation and went crazy looking at hot pics of chicks all over the internet.
It all started with oh well let's just take a quick look at this xyz model, then another one then 2 hours have passed then 3 and eventually I came.
I was alone in the living room, not really focused on doing anything, procastinating and wasting time, looking for a way to entertain myself. This is the perfect scenario to loose control, be stupid, be undisciplined and ultimately the perfect scenario to become someone that does not chase life and his goals but someone that is lazy and will not achieve sh!t in his life.

***
The challenge starts all over again.

I can think of multiple excuses but they are bullsh!t since I broke my word.
Gotta move on and keep pushing.
 

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Something you did instead of fapping: I fapped.

**Today I dove in temptation and went crazy looking at hot pics of chicks all over the internet.
It all started with oh well let's just take a quick look at this xyz model, then another one then 2 hours have passed then 3 and eventually I came.
I was alone in the living room, not really focused on doing anything, procastinating and wasting time, looking for a way to entertain myself. This is the perfect scenario to loose control, be stupid, be undisciplined and ultimately the perfect scenario to become someone that does not chase life and his goals but someone that is lazy and will not achieve sh!t in his life.

***
The challenge starts all over again.

I can think of multiple excuses but they are bullsh!t since I broke my word.
Gotta move on and keep pushing.
So when you got that trigger to look at the hot pics, is there something else you could have done or been doing instead? Are you sitting back in your life watching it like a movie or are you engaged?
 

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Something you did instead of fapping: been busy doing things.

**today does not count since I fapped another time yesterday after my last message before going to bed
 

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@mrgoodstuff
Of course!
I have to workouts to do, programs to code, bachata moves to learn.
So I'd say that I was layed back and lazy, like watching a movie as you said instead of being proactive and
taking action in an engaged way.

Any tips?
 

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Something you did instead of fapping: been busy doing things.
 

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Haven't watched any porn so far since I will force myself to text this lady that's nice and friendly with me. The last time I viewed something I made myself text her. I just found myself not viewing porn anymore.

Seeing that porn is offensive with God, I've determined not to view it so long as there is any girl to talk with, that could potentially go somewhere, and will force myself to interact with a real woman if this is viewed, giving my mind a subconscious choice or a reverse-psychology game. If I look at it again, she will be contacted, and I'll have to face the unknown.

Day 2 or 3 so far. Lets see where this goes.
 

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Something you did instead of fapping: been busy doing things.

This must be the saddest thing I've seen written on Sosuave in the longest time.

A life goal = no masturbation for 90 days

All of these nonsensical things you people come up with is easily swept away if you put more effort into creating a sphere of influence but noooooo......you rather do something that has totally no benefits whatsoever other then believing that hocus pocus go go power ranger super powers you'd be getting.
 

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This must be the saddest thing I've seen written on Sosuave in the longest time.

A life goal = no masturbation for 90 days

All of these nonsensical things you people come up with is easily swept away if you put more effort into creating a sphere of influence but noooooo......you rather do something that has totally no benefits whatsoever other then believing that hocus pocus go go power ranger super powers you'd be getting.
No need to judge the dude. This is his goal that he has set, so let him be. No one here judges you on your fondness of lady boys. Whatever makes people happy, let them be.
 

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No need to judge the dude. This is his goal that he has set, so let him be. No one here judges you on your fondness of lady boys. Whatever makes people happy, let them be.
You're still spinning stories from another thread into this one, still feeling salty over the fact u r not an infectious disease expert as you claimed to be?

If it soothes ur tender sensitive heart, I'm sorry for calling it out but I won't apologise for doing so.
 

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You're still spinning stories from another thread into this one, still feeling salty over the fact u r not an infectious disease expert as you claimed to be?

If it soothes ur tender sensitive heart, I'm sorry for calling it out but I won't apologise for doing so.
No need to get personal. I was just posting what you stated in other threads about you an ladyboys. I am not judging. Be as you are, no judgement here. As for my job, you can believe whatever your little heart wishes. It's all good and okay.
 

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She was low-interest type of girl. Decided to delete her number and texts and went on a porn binge last night like crazy, lol! Then I read the DJ Bible with Pook Anti-Dump to validate my actions of deleting her. Success is defined in terms of not being attached to a low-medium interest level woman, rather than having a woman.

I have Spaz on ignore a long time ago so I'm seeing a reply from RickTheToad standing up for what I believe was a reply to my own post made earlier and this is going to be noted. While RichtheToad and myself have disagreed or not seen eye-to-eye, I have always respected what he has advised or said because he has always maintained a respectful decorum. I don't mind agreeing to disagree and stand to be corrected if the advice stands the test of time. However, people like Spaz and others like him (i.e. ShePays, BackSeatDonJuan, etc...) routinely have crossed the line in the past and I don't view anything they say as constructive and not worth tuning into.
 

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No need to get personal. I was just posting what you stated in other threads about you an ladyboys. I am not judging. Be as you are, no judgement here. As for my job, you can believe whatever your little heart wishes. It's all good and okay.
Stop lying and stop being a loser who can't take criticism like a man.

Grow up and move on.
 

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Stop lying and stop being a loser who can't take criticism like a man.

Grow up and move on.
Oh Spaz. What are we going to do with you? You truly live up to the meaning of your screen name here on So Suave.


Spaz: meaning: US slang : a person who is very clumsy or awkward
slang, often offensive : one who is inept : KLUTZ

Bless your heart.
 

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Oh Spaz. What are we going to do with you? You truly live up to the meaning of your screen name here on So Suave.


Spaz: meaning: US slang : a person who is very clumsy or awkward
slang, often offensive : one who is inept : KLUTZ

Bless your heart.
Tsk Tsk Tsk... A grown man like you have been reduced to this childish behaviour.

Could you at least try a bit harder? Perhaps then I'd at least could pretend to believe ur lies.
 

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She was low-interest type of girl. Decided to delete her number and texts and went on a porn binge last night like crazy, lol! Then I read the DJ Bible with Pook Anti-Dump to validate my actions of deleting her. Success is defined in terms of not being attached to a low-medium interest level woman, rather than having a woman.

I have Spaz on ignore a long time ago so I'm seeing a reply from RickTheToad standing up for what I believe was a reply to my own post made earlier and this is going to be noted. While RichtheToad and myself have disagreed or not seen eye-to-eye, I have always respected what he has advised or said because he has always maintained a respectful decorum. I don't mind agreeing to disagree and stand to be corrected if the advice stands the test of time. However, people like Spaz and others like him (i.e. ShePays, BackSeatDonJuan, etc...) routinely have crossed the line in the past and I don't view anything they say as constructive and not worth tuning into.
Spaz isn't a bad dude, he's just, well, a spaz. He lives up to his screen name. He does provide some decent content and entertainment, but he often gets insulted very easily and takes things personally. In other words, he can give it out, but cannot accept it back. It just shows lack of maturity when someone has to go down to the level of personal attacks. Don't take his potshots personally, as he really doesn't mean to hurt the person he's attacking. He just doesn't have anything else to say. I equate most of Spaz's content to something similar to a Jester. Entertaining, yes, but holds no water in real life scenarios. It's okay. Bless his heart and I wish him to be a Super Spaz for as long as he desires.
 

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Spaz isn't a bad dude, he's just, well, a spaz. He lives up to his screen name. He does provide some decent content and entertainment, but he often gets insulted very easily and takes things personally. In other words, he can give it out, but cannot accept it back. It just shows lack of maturity when someone has to go down to the level of personal attacks. Don't take his potshots personally, as he really doesn't mean to hurt the person he's attacking. He just doesn't have anything else to say. I equate most of Spaz's content to something similar to a Jester. Entertaining, yes, but holds no water in real life scenarios. It's okay. Bless his heart and I wish him to be a Super Spaz for as long as he desires.
Yeah, he didn't even reply to my post. He just replied after my post, lol!
 
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