Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Desperate lonely girls on Christmas Eve

Desdinova

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Looks like a girl I dated last year is trying to NOT be lonely tonight. She called my home phone and my cell. I wasn't home and driving when she called the cell. Got a message on facebook saying "come get me"

My fb clearly says I'm in a LTR, and although she's one of the hottest chicks I've dated, I don't want her fvcking crazy ass back in my life. I've got a cool gf, and I'm happy with leaving it at that.

Anyone else getting contacted tonight?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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not tonight....yet. but last Christmas Eve i got a random text from a girl who i hungout with a couple of times. she had a b/f at the time yet seemed as if she was into me. she never would let me go past kissing though. she ended up marrying said guy and i hadn't heard from her in a year until last Christmas Eve. the text said "if I left my husband, would you be with me?". i didn't answer back.lol
 

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Yes I got contacted, by my mother.

Other than that no.
 
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I think I got a Happy Christmas message from a girl I was interested in a while back, I just wished the unknown number a Merry Christmas in return. If it was her and she wants me then tough sh*t, she should have taken up my offer when presented with it. If she's lonely at Christmas because she hasn't got a man in her life, tough cookie. I am delighted just to be sitting in front of my television watching Blackadder while drinking some Stella.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oneboy21 said:
Is it a good idea to reply to their text and hangout with them or take it easy.
That's upto you isn't it? Live life the way you want to and stop seeking an answer for every decision you are forced to make in life. That would be my advice to you.
 

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oneboy21 said:
Is it a good idea to reply to their text and hangout with them or take it easy.
If I wasn't exclusive with someone, I would've taken her up on the offer. She's got a great body and can squirt cvm across the room.
 
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