"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desperate lonely girls on Christmas Eve

Desdinova

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Looks like a girl I dated last year is trying to NOT be lonely tonight. She called my home phone and my cell. I wasn't home and driving when she called the cell. Got a message on facebook saying "come get me"

My fb clearly says I'm in a LTR, and although she's one of the hottest chicks I've dated, I don't want her fvcking crazy ass back in my life. I've got a cool gf, and I'm happy with leaving it at that.

Anyone else getting contacted tonight?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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not tonight....yet. but last Christmas Eve i got a random text from a girl who i hungout with a couple of times. she had a b/f at the time yet seemed as if she was into me. she never would let me go past kissing though. she ended up marrying said guy and i hadn't heard from her in a year until last Christmas Eve. the text said "if I left my husband, would you be with me?". i didn't answer back.lol
 

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Yes I got contacted, by my mother.

Other than that no.
 
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I think I got a Happy Christmas message from a girl I was interested in a while back, I just wished the unknown number a Merry Christmas in return. If it was her and she wants me then tough sh*t, she should have taken up my offer when presented with it. If she's lonely at Christmas because she hasn't got a man in her life, tough cookie. I am delighted just to be sitting in front of my television watching Blackadder while drinking some Stella.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oneboy21 said:
Is it a good idea to reply to their text and hangout with them or take it easy.
That's upto you isn't it? Live life the way you want to and stop seeking an answer for every decision you are forced to make in life. That would be my advice to you.
 

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oneboy21 said:
Is it a good idea to reply to their text and hangout with them or take it easy.
If I wasn't exclusive with someone, I would've taken her up on the offer. She's got a great body and can squirt cvm across the room.
 
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