"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desperate lonely girls on Christmas Eve

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Looks like a girl I dated last year is trying to NOT be lonely tonight. She called my home phone and my cell. I wasn't home and driving when she called the cell. Got a message on facebook saying "come get me"

My fb clearly says I'm in a LTR, and although she's one of the hottest chicks I've dated, I don't want her fvcking crazy ass back in my life. I've got a cool gf, and I'm happy with leaving it at that.

Anyone else getting contacted tonight?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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not tonight....yet. but last Christmas Eve i got a random text from a girl who i hungout with a couple of times. she had a b/f at the time yet seemed as if she was into me. she never would let me go past kissing though. she ended up marrying said guy and i hadn't heard from her in a year until last Christmas Eve. the text said "if I left my husband, would you be with me?". i didn't answer back.lol
 
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Yes I got contacted, by my mother.

Other than that no.
 
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I think I got a Happy Christmas message from a girl I was interested in a while back, I just wished the unknown number a Merry Christmas in return. If it was her and she wants me then tough sh*t, she should have taken up my offer when presented with it. If she's lonely at Christmas because she hasn't got a man in her life, tough cookie. I am delighted just to be sitting in front of my television watching Blackadder while drinking some Stella.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oneboy21 said:
Is it a good idea to reply to their text and hangout with them or take it easy.
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That's upto you isn't it? Live life the way you want to and stop seeking an answer for every decision you are forced to make in life. That would be my advice to you.
 
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oneboy21 said:
Is it a good idea to reply to their text and hangout with them or take it easy.
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If I wasn't exclusive with someone, I would've taken her up on the offer. She's got a great body and can squirt cvm across the room.
 
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