"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desperate Dating N00bling Please Help!

squelchy451

Don Juan
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HI.

I know this girl and she might like me.
I'm going with her to this korean BBQ thing at my church. Should ask her to be my GF then or should I wait until another time?

I just got my permit (I live in LA btw) and cannot drive w/o someone 21 years or older with a license. Is not having a car a huge minus? Where I live, it's pretty boring and nothing much to do.

Also, I use antiperspirants. Do they really create Alzheimers?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jeffthechef

Master Don Juan
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wow..you're new i'm sure..but can you please read the dj bible first..or at least only the highlighted articles...

NO don't ask ehr to be your gf..that way of doing ended in 6th grade...esclate kino..eye contact..humor

NO not being able to drive doesn't mean ****..take a bus..it's sometimes more fun actually...you can completely focus on her and talk about things you see outside..or walk..which is best i say...holding hands, talking, nature

NO antiperspirants don't cause alzies..google search it if you need
 

intrextrovert

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Same boat as you with living with not much to do, and I don't even have a permit yet.

I need ideas besides just chilling andor watching a movie.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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