"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desperate Dating N00bling Please Help!

squelchy451

Don Juan
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HI.

I know this girl and she might like me.
I'm going with her to this korean BBQ thing at my church. Should ask her to be my GF then or should I wait until another time?

I just got my permit (I live in LA btw) and cannot drive w/o someone 21 years or older with a license. Is not having a car a huge minus? Where I live, it's pretty boring and nothing much to do.

Also, I use antiperspirants. Do they really create Alzheimers?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jeffthechef

Master Don Juan
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wow..you're new i'm sure..but can you please read the dj bible first..or at least only the highlighted articles...

NO don't ask ehr to be your gf..that way of doing ended in 6th grade...esclate kino..eye contact..humor

NO not being able to drive doesn't mean ****..take a bus..it's sometimes more fun actually...you can completely focus on her and talk about things you see outside..or walk..which is best i say...holding hands, talking, nature

NO antiperspirants don't cause alzies..google search it if you need
 

intrextrovert

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Same boat as you with living with not much to do, and I don't even have a permit yet.

I need ideas besides just chilling andor watching a movie.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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