"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desperate Dating N00bling Please Help!

squelchy451

Don Juan
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HI.

I know this girl and she might like me.
I'm going with her to this korean BBQ thing at my church. Should ask her to be my GF then or should I wait until another time?

I just got my permit (I live in LA btw) and cannot drive w/o someone 21 years or older with a license. Is not having a car a huge minus? Where I live, it's pretty boring and nothing much to do.

Also, I use antiperspirants. Do they really create Alzheimers?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jeffthechef

Master Don Juan
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wow..you're new i'm sure..but can you please read the dj bible first..or at least only the highlighted articles...

NO don't ask ehr to be your gf..that way of doing ended in 6th grade...esclate kino..eye contact..humor

NO not being able to drive doesn't mean ****..take a bus..it's sometimes more fun actually...you can completely focus on her and talk about things you see outside..or walk..which is best i say...holding hands, talking, nature

NO antiperspirants don't cause alzies..google search it if you need
 

intrextrovert

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Same boat as you with living with not much to do, and I don't even have a permit yet.

I need ideas besides just chilling andor watching a movie.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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