"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desperate Dating N00bling Please Help!

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squelchy451

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HI.

I know this girl and she might like me.
I'm going with her to this korean BBQ thing at my church. Should ask her to be my GF then or should I wait until another time?

I just got my permit (I live in LA btw) and cannot drive w/o someone 21 years or older with a license. Is not having a car a huge minus? Where I live, it's pretty boring and nothing much to do.

Also, I use antiperspirants. Do they really create Alzheimers?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jeffthechef

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wow..you're new i'm sure..but can you please read the dj bible first..or at least only the highlighted articles...

NO don't ask ehr to be your gf..that way of doing ended in 6th grade...esclate kino..eye contact..humor

NO not being able to drive doesn't mean ****..take a bus..it's sometimes more fun actually...you can completely focus on her and talk about things you see outside..or walk..which is best i say...holding hands, talking, nature

NO antiperspirants don't cause alzies..google search it if you need
 
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intrextrovert

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Same boat as you with living with not much to do, and I don't even have a permit yet.

I need ideas besides just chilling andor watching a movie.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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