"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Greasy Pig

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That story is gold, Des. What a frickin psycho! But at least she gave it up in the end. Good job my man!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I fvcked her the night after too. Then she messages me yesterday saying that she's developing feelings for me. Time to pull back. She seems like a nut job.

It's always the quiet ones.
 

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Mauser96 said:
Why did she break up with you?
I responded to you in the NC thread.

...and for those who are actually watching this thread, yes she contacted me yesterday asking for a copy of a song I wrote that she did a vocal track on and then proceeded to ask me how I've been. I did not respond.

Let's re-visit an earlier post in the thread...

backbreaker said:
you are basically promoting white knightism by stating that you KNOW she's going ot come back.
I guess that's a moot point now ;)

I'm starting to lose track of my plates. New ones are coming up while old ones are dropping off. I have no clue who I'm actually dating right now.
 
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