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That story is gold, Des. What a frickin psycho! But at least she gave it up in the end. Good job my man!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Try to get some foreign women into your plates. You won't regret it bro
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I responded to you in the NC thread.Mauser96 said:
...and for those who are actually watching this thread, yes she contacted me yesterday asking for a copy of a song I wrote that she did a vocal track on and then proceeded to ask me how I've been. I did not respond.
Let's re-visit an earlier post in the thread...
I guess that's a moot point nowbackbreaker said:
I'm starting to lose track of my plates. New ones are coming up while old ones are dropping off. I have no clue who I'm actually dating right now.