"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Greasy Pig

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That story is gold, Des. What a frickin psycho! But at least she gave it up in the end. Good job my man!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I fvcked her the night after too. Then she messages me yesterday saying that she's developing feelings for me. Time to pull back. She seems like a nut job.

It's always the quiet ones.
 

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Mauser96 said:
Why did she break up with you?
I responded to you in the NC thread.

...and for those who are actually watching this thread, yes she contacted me yesterday asking for a copy of a song I wrote that she did a vocal track on and then proceeded to ask me how I've been. I did not respond.

Let's re-visit an earlier post in the thread...

backbreaker said:
you are basically promoting white knightism by stating that you KNOW she's going ot come back.
I guess that's a moot point now ;)

I'm starting to lose track of my plates. New ones are coming up while old ones are dropping off. I have no clue who I'm actually dating right now.
 
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