Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Thank you to the people who share on this site. Thank you for the guys out there facing pain to help others.

I have had two rejections in the last week, I can tell you it stings. It helps coming on here and sharing your story. It helps to listen to the people who know better than you. Half the battle is just doing the right thing. The right thing is to talk to woman you like, to ask them to share some time with you. There are tools out there to handle rejection. Nothing of them helps more than sharing your story and making it an asset of your own. Overall I am having fun and I know I am on my path.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The growing pains can indeed hurt, but you have the right attitude by keeping your chin up and learning from it.
 

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Thank you. I think the biggest thing is take the whip out of your hand. Stop beating yourself up if you did something wrong. You are out there gettng better and learn from your mistakes. Focus on the next right thing. The next right thing is getting back out there and bettering yourself.
 

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Demonpenz said:
Thank you. I think the biggest thing is take the whip out of your hand. Stop beating yourself up if you did something wrong. You are out there gettng better and learn from your mistakes. Focus on the next right thing. The next right thing is getting back out there and bettering yourself.
Exactly. it's just like playing an instrument player. You're bound to screw up a few times, but you continue until you're able to play fluidly.
 
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