"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Demonpenz

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Thank you to the people who share on this site. Thank you for the guys out there facing pain to help others.

I have had two rejections in the last week, I can tell you it stings. It helps coming on here and sharing your story. It helps to listen to the people who know better than you. Half the battle is just doing the right thing. The right thing is to talk to woman you like, to ask them to share some time with you. There are tools out there to handle rejection. Nothing of them helps more than sharing your story and making it an asset of your own. Overall I am having fun and I know I am on my path.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The growing pains can indeed hurt, but you have the right attitude by keeping your chin up and learning from it.
 

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Thank you. I think the biggest thing is take the whip out of your hand. Stop beating yourself up if you did something wrong. You are out there gettng better and learn from your mistakes. Focus on the next right thing. The next right thing is getting back out there and bettering yourself.
 

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Demonpenz said:
Thank you. I think the biggest thing is take the whip out of your hand. Stop beating yourself up if you did something wrong. You are out there gettng better and learn from your mistakes. Focus on the next right thing. The next right thing is getting back out there and bettering yourself.
Exactly. it's just like playing an instrument player. You're bound to screw up a few times, but you continue until you're able to play fluidly.
 
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