"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Demonpenz

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Thank you to the people who share on this site. Thank you for the guys out there facing pain to help others.

I have had two rejections in the last week, I can tell you it stings. It helps coming on here and sharing your story. It helps to listen to the people who know better than you. Half the battle is just doing the right thing. The right thing is to talk to woman you like, to ask them to share some time with you. There are tools out there to handle rejection. Nothing of them helps more than sharing your story and making it an asset of your own. Overall I am having fun and I know I am on my path.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The growing pains can indeed hurt, but you have the right attitude by keeping your chin up and learning from it.
 

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Thank you. I think the biggest thing is take the whip out of your hand. Stop beating yourself up if you did something wrong. You are out there gettng better and learn from your mistakes. Focus on the next right thing. The next right thing is getting back out there and bettering yourself.
 

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Demonpenz said:
Thank you. I think the biggest thing is take the whip out of your hand. Stop beating yourself up if you did something wrong. You are out there gettng better and learn from your mistakes. Focus on the next right thing. The next right thing is getting back out there and bettering yourself.
Exactly. it's just like playing an instrument player. You're bound to screw up a few times, but you continue until you're able to play fluidly.
 
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