"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Delusional?

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I'm a basketcase right now! Every girl I talk to I think I'm too good for them and I hold myself back. I know I sound like an a**hole but damnit I just have to get through this. I don't know why it is but unless she's some sort of princess or something I don't want anything to do with them. I don't want a LTR. I just want to have my way with them and send them packing. Yet I'm lonely most of the time. I'm gonna end up a lonely old bastard with a chip on my shoulder the size of Texas or something because I'm like this. Have any of you felt like this? If so help get me through it please! Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you have trouble connecting with people or just women?
 
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I'm pretty good at making friends just not connecting with them. I have many aquaintances but not a lot of really close friends.
 
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I've felt it before. Alot of times I just like to chase girls and freeze up at oppurtunity. Or I lose interest. I used to get really big headed and overanalytical and think I figured everything out after any kind of success. The key is to stay grounded.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you've accomplished a lot in life its only natural to want a partner that is as driven as you, that appreciates hard work and sacrifice.

A lot of chicks can seem so goofy, directionless and silly that its understandable you feel that they are beneath you and not worth much more than sex.

The solution of course is for you to find a chick thats fought hard to get success and because of this she can appreciate hard work and a man like you.

Basically what I think would satisfy you is to find someone you can view as an equal.
 
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