"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm a basketcase right now! Every girl I talk to I think I'm too good for them and I hold myself back. I know I sound like an a**hole but damnit I just have to get through this. I don't know why it is but unless she's some sort of princess or something I don't want anything to do with them. I don't want a LTR. I just want to have my way with them and send them packing. Yet I'm lonely most of the time. I'm gonna end up a lonely old bastard with a chip on my shoulder the size of Texas or something because I'm like this. Have any of you felt like this? If so help get me through it please! Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you have trouble connecting with people or just women?
 
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I'm pretty good at making friends just not connecting with them. I have many aquaintances but not a lot of really close friends.
 
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I've felt it before. Alot of times I just like to chase girls and freeze up at oppurtunity. Or I lose interest. I used to get really big headed and overanalytical and think I figured everything out after any kind of success. The key is to stay grounded.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you've accomplished a lot in life its only natural to want a partner that is as driven as you, that appreciates hard work and sacrifice.

A lot of chicks can seem so goofy, directionless and silly that its understandable you feel that they are beneath you and not worth much more than sex.

The solution of course is for you to find a chick thats fought hard to get success and because of this she can appreciate hard work and a man like you.

Basically what I think would satisfy you is to find someone you can view as an equal.
 
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