"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Delusional?

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I'm a basketcase right now! Every girl I talk to I think I'm too good for them and I hold myself back. I know I sound like an a**hole but damnit I just have to get through this. I don't know why it is but unless she's some sort of princess or something I don't want anything to do with them. I don't want a LTR. I just want to have my way with them and send them packing. Yet I'm lonely most of the time. I'm gonna end up a lonely old bastard with a chip on my shoulder the size of Texas or something because I'm like this. Have any of you felt like this? If so help get me through it please! Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you have trouble connecting with people or just women?
 
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I'm pretty good at making friends just not connecting with them. I have many aquaintances but not a lot of really close friends.
 
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I've felt it before. Alot of times I just like to chase girls and freeze up at oppurtunity. Or I lose interest. I used to get really big headed and overanalytical and think I figured everything out after any kind of success. The key is to stay grounded.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you've accomplished a lot in life its only natural to want a partner that is as driven as you, that appreciates hard work and sacrifice.

A lot of chicks can seem so goofy, directionless and silly that its understandable you feel that they are beneath you and not worth much more than sex.

The solution of course is for you to find a chick thats fought hard to get success and because of this she can appreciate hard work and a man like you.

Basically what I think would satisfy you is to find someone you can view as an equal.
 
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