"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Deleted messages and phone call on whatsapp

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Last night was texting a girl every two hours or so. Saw her last text at like 1 am but was already half a sleep so I slept further. Knew she was out with friends.

I turn off my wifi at night. Got up at 7am and saw she texted me ‘sorry wrong use of my phone’ and asked me about my night. I opened whatsapp and I saw she deleted two texts and gave me a call 10 minutes after those deleted texts.

I don’t know if it’s on or not with this girl and thus don’t know what happened. Was it just the wrong person she texted/called? Did she perhaps say something negative (like I actually don’t like you) or something else.

Just ignore what happened or ask her about it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ignore and do not mention it

could have been "i like you alot"
ive caught alot of texts before delete, they were all in the positive
 
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