"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Deleted messages and phone call on whatsapp

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Last night was texting a girl every two hours or so. Saw her last text at like 1 am but was already half a sleep so I slept further. Knew she was out with friends.

I turn off my wifi at night. Got up at 7am and saw she texted me ‘sorry wrong use of my phone’ and asked me about my night. I opened whatsapp and I saw she deleted two texts and gave me a call 10 minutes after those deleted texts.

I don’t know if it’s on or not with this girl and thus don’t know what happened. Was it just the wrong person she texted/called? Did she perhaps say something negative (like I actually don’t like you) or something else.

Just ignore what happened or ask her about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ignore and do not mention it

could have been "i like you alot"
ive caught alot of texts before delete, they were all in the positive
 
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