Groverz
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What has your experience been after a break up with pictures on FB? If you were dumped or if you dumped them did either of you delete all of the pictures? If not why?
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Delete pictures after a breakup?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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If you delete the pics then it will help get her off your mind and forward with your life. Otherwise, it will look like you are pining over her and secretly hoping she'll come back into your life as you have all of these wasted memories lying around. Especially if she's hot and she's gone for life.
Groverz
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What if she does not delete the pictures of me she has?
Do most girls delete them after breakups?
Do most girls delete them after breakups?
I'm nearly a month past breakup and the Facebook photos remain, still tagged. I think it really depends on the type of person and breakup as to whether or not you'd want to even be remotely associated with them.
If it was clean (as far as breakup goes) and you don't mind people knowing of your past then I don't see the problem in leaving them, provided you have more to your Facebook profile than pictures of your ex.
If you're going NC and insist on keeping her as a Facebook friend then I'd advise turning off your chat to her (so that you do not appear online and her name doesn't appear online to you either) and unticking the "show on newsfeed" option on her profile. Seeing her name will not help you.
If it was clean (as far as breakup goes) and you don't mind people knowing of your past then I don't see the problem in leaving them, provided you have more to your Facebook profile than pictures of your ex.
If you're going NC and insist on keeping her as a Facebook friend then I'd advise turning off your chat to her (so that you do not appear online and her name doesn't appear online to you either) and unticking the "show on newsfeed" option on her profile. Seeing her name will not help you.
VladPatton
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Delete everything that reminds you of her. Out of sight, out of mind. Time to move on. Fück what everybody else thinks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
^^^ yup, don't dwell on the past... look to the future.