"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deflating

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Immediately after a work out I look really good. My muscles are pumped and ripped and I look big. However, I wake up the following morning and I look deflated. I look thinner and the muscles have less definition.

I recently took a week rest period and by the end of the week I looked like I'd lost a load of mass. Yet immediately after resuming my workouts I seemed to "inflate" back into shape.

Can anyone relate to this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lifeforce

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Yeah I can. The blood get stuck in your muscles when you work out heavy and you look pumped up. Then when you relax and wait a couple of hours you deflate again and look skinnier.
 

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thats why pro boduilders pump up before entering on stage.
 

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It's normal. And as Duke just said, BB'ers always have to pump before going onstage.

I lost 2-3 inches off of my arms when I was ill and wasnt eating much... I've put almost 2 inches back on, so I'm not too bothered.

Just know it's normal.

Try getting a huge pump, then having a cold shower.... makes you look super-big ;)
 

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Yep, I'm sure everyone can relate to this. It's a muscle pump and happens pretty much whenever you workout. It's a good boost of confidence.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dockta

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DJB.. whats with the pump and cold shower? sounds interesting.. i hopes its notjust "another: one of your fetishes :)
 

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When you take a cold shower the skin tightens and the blood in the muscle (aka the pump) get stuck longer so you look inflated. :)
 

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Exactly.

And stop with the less-than-friendly/patronising comments. You're no one on an internet forum so theres no need to try and talk anyone down.
 

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DJB... was that for me? if your relating that to my last post to you.... i was being serious... i didnt know about the pump and shower... and the fetish thing was a joke man. lighten up. my bad
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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