"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Definition of a QUALITY girl

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What seperates one-night douchebags from LTR material. . .

I would like to read what your perspectives are. Also, if you believe you know what attracts these types(from experience and such) then I'd apperciate your input on that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sfalexi

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Simple.

If you enjoy her company whenever you're together and don't think that the night HAS to end in sex in order to make hanging out with her "worthwhile".

Alexi
 

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Originally posted by sfalexi
Simple.

If you enjoy her company whenever you're together and don't think that the night HAS to end in sex in order to make hanging out with her "worthwhile".

Alexi
Wait a minute, isn't sex is what makes any relationship "worthwhile" ?
 

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Ughhh, sex is fun, yes, i agree. If you want sex, find someone else who wants just sex. Hanging around a girl and spending time with her just because you havent ****ed her yet and that's all you want to do is not an LTR, that's a LTI, long term investment.

For an LTR, sex is not a foundation buiding block. Eventually the novelty wears off, and something has to fill the void, i.e substance.
 

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for me, LTR material is a woman that has it. She knows the game, whe can play it, she is really the real deal. It's like she's read the book "The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right" and lives it. She also has to either have her life together, or have ambition and is working to get it together.

That's LTR matterial for me. Looks aren't too important, but of course I have to be able to look at her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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