"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Definition of a QUALITY girl

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What seperates one-night douchebags from LTR material. . .

I would like to read what your perspectives are. Also, if you believe you know what attracts these types(from experience and such) then I'd apperciate your input on that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sfalexi

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Simple.

If you enjoy her company whenever you're together and don't think that the night HAS to end in sex in order to make hanging out with her "worthwhile".

Alexi
 

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Originally posted by sfalexi
Simple.

If you enjoy her company whenever you're together and don't think that the night HAS to end in sex in order to make hanging out with her "worthwhile".

Alexi
Wait a minute, isn't sex is what makes any relationship "worthwhile" ?
 

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Ughhh, sex is fun, yes, i agree. If you want sex, find someone else who wants just sex. Hanging around a girl and spending time with her just because you havent ****ed her yet and that's all you want to do is not an LTR, that's a LTI, long term investment.

For an LTR, sex is not a foundation buiding block. Eventually the novelty wears off, and something has to fill the void, i.e substance.
 

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for me, LTR material is a woman that has it. She knows the game, whe can play it, she is really the real deal. It's like she's read the book "The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right" and lives it. She also has to either have her life together, or have ambition and is working to get it together.

That's LTR matterial for me. Looks aren't too important, but of course I have to be able to look at her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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