"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

defending the hilltop!!!!

Enjin 7

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2005
Messages
194
Reaction score
1
well my friends... it is that time.

my first true gf.

I am used to working my way up the hill and conquering foes in order to reach the hilltop. unfortunately, most of the time, I become disinterested in the girl and say she is not worth it.

I found someone who is worth it. Super cool, hott, virgin, common interest, intelligent, etc. I worked my way all the way up the hill and now I am on top.

Now comes a new challenge. Defending the hilltop. I have no idea how to thwart enemies to my game. You would think I would have a good idea of how to defend, being the attacker for so long. BUT NOPE LOL!

I dont want to be the typical "jealous" type, but then again it is male instinct to want to just crack skulls when other guys come into the picture hitting on your gf. I mean... she's hott, so it will happen, and a lot. how do you handle it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

smeckle

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2006
Messages
34
Reaction score
0
Location
Kernersville, NC
Here's how I handle it. (my girlfriend gets hit on a lot)

I don't let it bother me. It shows confidence. But, ask questions to show you do care. Just don't get jealous.

My girlfriend is very protective, so am I. I just ask questions (mainly to reassure me haha) and let her know I that I care about her. That keeps here with me...
 

Enjin 7

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2005
Messages
194
Reaction score
1
I have no idea what AMOG is, but I always try to emit the "alpha male" aura and act like no one is a threat to me. but honestly, you have to admit you would feel a bit threatened.

friendliness means dismissing their attempt with pity friendliness?
 

Soprano

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2005
Messages
715
Reaction score
3
for dates i'll say "now you two would make a good couple" after subtly making somewhat of a goof of the situation and the guy approaching her (there are several ways to do this easily without even talking to the guy or going crazy with "AMOG"ing) and it has yet to fail me, although i do hate using the same thing more than a few times lol

but a GIRLFRIEND is awhole diff ballgame i guess, idunno i havent reached that hilltop yet with someone i actually care that much about lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top