"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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defending the hilltop!!!!

Enjin 7

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well my friends... it is that time.

my first true gf.

I am used to working my way up the hill and conquering foes in order to reach the hilltop. unfortunately, most of the time, I become disinterested in the girl and say she is not worth it.

I found someone who is worth it. Super cool, hott, virgin, common interest, intelligent, etc. I worked my way all the way up the hill and now I am on top.

Now comes a new challenge. Defending the hilltop. I have no idea how to thwart enemies to my game. You would think I would have a good idea of how to defend, being the attacker for so long. BUT NOPE LOL!

I dont want to be the typical "jealous" type, but then again it is male instinct to want to just crack skulls when other guys come into the picture hitting on your gf. I mean... she's hott, so it will happen, and a lot. how do you handle it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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smeckle

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Here's how I handle it. (my girlfriend gets hit on a lot)

I don't let it bother me. It shows confidence. But, ask questions to show you do care. Just don't get jealous.

My girlfriend is very protective, so am I. I just ask questions (mainly to reassure me haha) and let her know I that I care about her. That keeps here with me...
 

Enjin 7

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I have no idea what AMOG is, but I always try to emit the "alpha male" aura and act like no one is a threat to me. but honestly, you have to admit you would feel a bit threatened.

friendliness means dismissing their attempt with pity friendliness?
 

Soprano

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for dates i'll say "now you two would make a good couple" after subtly making somewhat of a goof of the situation and the guy approaching her (there are several ways to do this easily without even talking to the guy or going crazy with "AMOG"ing) and it has yet to fail me, although i do hate using the same thing more than a few times lol

but a GIRLFRIEND is awhole diff ballgame i guess, idunno i havent reached that hilltop yet with someone i actually care that much about lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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