"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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suaveplayer

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hey guys,
it seems to me that i know a lot of people, i talk with them in class,etc. however, i barely get invited to do anything. basically its like we're friends but very shallow friends. what are some ways to "take it to the next level" in tems of friends? i mean go from acquaintances to real friends.

for example, i know some of the popular ppl at our school. even friends with some of them, but we only talk in class. how can i budge into the popular group?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Instead of waiting for them to invite you try to ask them to hang out. Dont wait for them to invite you, just as long as you dont seem desperate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Start by calling them up on the weekend and seeing what they are up to.

It takes time to form a good friendship
 
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I know your situation and i ask you this.
Do these people you talk with at school ever talk about what they are doing after school or over the weekend?

When they do that then maybe drop a subtle hint that you would be game to come along by saying something like hey that sounds like fun or i love doing that. You might get invited after saying somethign like that.

Or you can be a little more direct and say you dont have any plans yet so maybe you will give them a call to hang out.(If you dont have their number then you will need to ask for it for obvious reasons)


If they never talk about what they are doing then just ask. I usually causually bring it up with lots of people at school, especially on friday when everone is excited for the weekend, and oftentimes i get invited along to things after I ask what they are up to.
 
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