"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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deep eye contact gives me wood, help

dynamicallyidle

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I'm dead serious. The main reason I won't hold eye contact with a hot girl is because it gives me wood. My emotions are affected too intensely. And it is holding back my game, a lot.

Any tips, ideas, or experiences on how to feel less affected during intense eye contact / smiling?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Killer Six Pac

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lol

yeah i know what you mean, happened abit to me at first, not full on hard wood but enough to distract you,:crackup:

anyway just keep trying, it'll go away...
 

dynamicallyidle

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Yeah, and when we're both in BATHING SUITS, it's a VERY noticeable addition to the convo.
 
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