"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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deep eye contact gives me wood, help

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dynamicallyidle

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I'm dead serious. The main reason I won't hold eye contact with a hot girl is because it gives me wood. My emotions are affected too intensely. And it is holding back my game, a lot.

Any tips, ideas, or experiences on how to feel less affected during intense eye contact / smiling?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol

yeah i know what you mean, happened abit to me at first, not full on hard wood but enough to distract you,:crackup:

anyway just keep trying, it'll go away...
 
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dynamicallyidle

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Yeah, and when we're both in BATHING SUITS, it's a VERY noticeable addition to the convo.
 
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