"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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deep eye contact gives me wood, help

dynamicallyidle

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I'm dead serious. The main reason I won't hold eye contact with a hot girl is because it gives me wood. My emotions are affected too intensely. And it is holding back my game, a lot.

Any tips, ideas, or experiences on how to feel less affected during intense eye contact / smiling?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Killer Six Pac

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lol

yeah i know what you mean, happened abit to me at first, not full on hard wood but enough to distract you,:crackup:

anyway just keep trying, it'll go away...
 

dynamicallyidle

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Yeah, and when we're both in BATHING SUITS, it's a VERY noticeable addition to the convo.
 
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