"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Decision to STOP PAYING for everything. Need serious workable Plan.....

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ShawnStJames

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I've decided that there is no way to stop feminism from wreaking ruiination in my life. Instead, I'll let them GET what they SAY they want. Some idea of equality.

Job # 1 ....Stop paying. Or should I say.,,,split it all up EQUALLY.

I need some genuine ideas on this. It is against my total nature to not pay for going out. Ive been doing it for areally long time.

I dont want to be an ass about it. I just want to stop paying.

Im sure some of you guys know how to do this. Cause I have no idea.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by goldenboy83

The most important thing is not to be insecure and avoid those "I wonder if you pay your part" looks. Either pay for her as if it was self-evident or let her pay for herself as if it was self-evident.
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i agree totally.
 
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just tell her your position and she how she handles it.
 
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Girl Im seeing right now is really strong minded on paying her on way. I don't argue :)
 
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