"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Decision to STOP PAYING for everything. Need serious workable Plan.....

ShawnStJames

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I've decided that there is no way to stop feminism from wreaking ruiination in my life. Instead, I'll let them GET what they SAY they want. Some idea of equality.

Job # 1 ....Stop paying. Or should I say.,,,split it all up EQUALLY.

I need some genuine ideas on this. It is against my total nature to not pay for going out. Ive been doing it for areally long time.

I dont want to be an ass about it. I just want to stop paying.

Im sure some of you guys know how to do this. Cause I have no idea.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jakeyboy

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Originally posted by goldenboy83

The most important thing is not to be insecure and avoid those "I wonder if you pay your part" looks. Either pay for her as if it was self-evident or let her pay for herself as if it was self-evident.

i agree totally.
 

DJ_Dork

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just tell her your position and she how she handles it.
 

VictorK

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Girl Im seeing right now is really strong minded on paying her on way. I don't argue :)
 
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