"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Decipher this body language signal

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheMale

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i have some idea

1. you have a great face and she's wondering if you're the same down there
2. you're face is not so attractive but she asking herself if you can compensate for that ...
3. trying to get your attention first by looking at you and then looking down to tell you ... yeah .. i want it !
 

PapiChulo

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Just checking you out. They start up top and go all the way to the feet. It's a very swift action. Guys usually look at the boobs, ass, and face. Either way, it does not mean anything, she is just appraising you, that's all. P.S. My package sticks out quite a bit with most types of clothing, and I never had women staring at it or anything like that even though I am tall and it's kinda in their face.
 

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oneboy21 said:
What it means when a girl looks at your face and looks down towards your crotch.
Did she look down and away and then to your crotch? That's submission. Time to cross the room and talk with her.
Did she look you in the eyes and then to your crotch? That's interest. Time to cross the room and talk with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

JustLurk

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TheMale

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i have the first book about body language i don't know how much it's good cause i didn't read ...
 

st_99

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Studying body language as a little hobby is actually pretty fun. You start to notice sooo much when you look for it. I think girls are more natural than guys at reading body language because us guys mostly have are head up our a$$'s when it comes to caring about what others might be thinking or feeling.
 
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