"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Decipher this body language signal

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheMale

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i have some idea

1. you have a great face and she's wondering if you're the same down there
2. you're face is not so attractive but she asking herself if you can compensate for that ...
3. trying to get your attention first by looking at you and then looking down to tell you ... yeah .. i want it !
 

PapiChulo

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Just checking you out. They start up top and go all the way to the feet. It's a very swift action. Guys usually look at the boobs, ass, and face. Either way, it does not mean anything, she is just appraising you, that's all. P.S. My package sticks out quite a bit with most types of clothing, and I never had women staring at it or anything like that even though I am tall and it's kinda in their face.
 

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oneboy21 said:
What it means when a girl looks at your face and looks down towards your crotch.
Did she look down and away and then to your crotch? That's submission. Time to cross the room and talk with her.
Did she look you in the eyes and then to your crotch? That's interest. Time to cross the room and talk with her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMale

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i have the first book about body language i don't know how much it's good cause i didn't read ...
 

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Studying body language as a little hobby is actually pretty fun. You start to notice sooo much when you look for it. I think girls are more natural than guys at reading body language because us guys mostly have are head up our a$$'s when it comes to caring about what others might be thinking or feeling.
 
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