"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Decipher this body language signal

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TheMale

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i have some idea

1. you have a great face and she's wondering if you're the same down there
2. you're face is not so attractive but she asking herself if you can compensate for that ...
3. trying to get your attention first by looking at you and then looking down to tell you ... yeah .. i want it !
 

PapiChulo

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Just checking you out. They start up top and go all the way to the feet. It's a very swift action. Guys usually look at the boobs, ass, and face. Either way, it does not mean anything, she is just appraising you, that's all. P.S. My package sticks out quite a bit with most types of clothing, and I never had women staring at it or anything like that even though I am tall and it's kinda in their face.
 

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oneboy21 said:
What it means when a girl looks at your face and looks down towards your crotch.
Did she look down and away and then to your crotch? That's submission. Time to cross the room and talk with her.
Did she look you in the eyes and then to your crotch? That's interest. Time to cross the room and talk with her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheMale

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i have the first book about body language i don't know how much it's good cause i didn't read ...
 

st_99

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Studying body language as a little hobby is actually pretty fun. You start to notice sooo much when you look for it. I think girls are more natural than guys at reading body language because us guys mostly have are head up our a$$'s when it comes to caring about what others might be thinking or feeling.
 
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