"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deceiving women with your looks Part II

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DJnoob

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Isnt is it weird when you look at someone and expect this person to be like this but when you meet and talk to this person, this person is completely different from what you perceived him to be?

What do you guys think?

Lets say, you saw a mean looking person who looks like a serial killer, bad ass, but when you actually talk to this person, you find out that this person is actually nice and stuff.

Whats your take on this?

Is this the kinda of person women fall for?

You know anyone like this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah, i know looks can be deceiving,but what im trying to say is this. Whats your reaction after finding out who this person really is after talking to them? Apply this to anyone you;ve met in the past.. both male and female
 
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Your nick name made me think you were an idiot. I was right.

Ninja Out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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One of the toughest things to overcome is to not pre-judge anyone....especially based on their appearance.

We're all guilty of this, and for me personally, i'm really trying to stop doing it...... It's a sign of insecurity and immaturity.

I'm at my best when I feel alot of compassion for everyone around me, regardless of their race, social class, appearance..etc.

It's definitely a challenge to accept everyone as they are and judge them based on their personalities, only..... and only after I've had a chance to get to know them.

It's easy to spot Ass holes but some people just give off a bad vibe, unintentionally... once you get to know them, you realize that they are wicked-cool people.

Just try and keep an open mind
 
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