"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deceiving women with your looks Part II

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Isnt is it weird when you look at someone and expect this person to be like this but when you meet and talk to this person, this person is completely different from what you perceived him to be?

What do you guys think?

Lets say, you saw a mean looking person who looks like a serial killer, bad ass, but when you actually talk to this person, you find out that this person is actually nice and stuff.

Whats your take on this?

Is this the kinda of person women fall for?

You know anyone like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah, i know looks can be deceiving,but what im trying to say is this. Whats your reaction after finding out who this person really is after talking to them? Apply this to anyone you;ve met in the past.. both male and female
 
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Your nick name made me think you were an idiot. I was right.

Ninja Out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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One of the toughest things to overcome is to not pre-judge anyone....especially based on their appearance.

We're all guilty of this, and for me personally, i'm really trying to stop doing it...... It's a sign of insecurity and immaturity.

I'm at my best when I feel alot of compassion for everyone around me, regardless of their race, social class, appearance..etc.

It's definitely a challenge to accept everyone as they are and judge them based on their personalities, only..... and only after I've had a chance to get to know them.

It's easy to spot Ass holes but some people just give off a bad vibe, unintentionally... once you get to know them, you realize that they are wicked-cool people.

Just try and keep an open mind
 
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